man sues girlfriend for being dumped

Now this is a some­what inter­est­ing sit­u­a­tion, con­sid­er­ing this hap­pens prob­a­bly a lot.

Here is the basic infor­ma­tion on this case and a few oth­er cas­es that have been going through the courts both in the Unit­ed States and in some oth­er Nations.

The base premise here is that the woman used the man for finan­cial gain by mak­ing promis­es of a future long term rela­tion­ship when she actu­al­ly had no inten­tion of fol­low­ing through with the rela­tion­ship. 

Rela­tion­ships end for many dif­fer­ent rea­sons, some­times we do not ful­ly under­stand what hap­pened.

How­ev­er there are some cas­es where finan­cial pay­ments made dur­ing a rela­tion­ship could be said to be some­what depen­dent upon the expec­ta­tions of each par­ty.

When a man expects the rela­tion­ship to con­tin­ue and has no rea­son to believe that the oth­er par­ty is in fact already dat­ing some­one else then finan­cial con­sid­er­a­tion for med­ical bills, sup­port and main­te­nance might be viewed by the court as fraud or lar­ce­ny in some instances, depend­ing on what those indi­vid­ual cir­cum­stances.

There are a cer­tain class of women that do this on a reg­u­lar basis and they in fact are pro­fes­sion­als at extract­ing pay­ments and gifts from men.

Until recent­ly how­ev­er most of the time the male was too embar­rassed by being deceived and treat­ed like a mark that most of the time these sit­u­a­tions nev­er make it to court.

That is chang­ing, for exam­ple lets take a fic­tion­al sit­u­a­tion where a woman is dat­ing a man and has been for one year.

But secret­ly she has also been dat­ing oth­er men unknown to the man that she is dat­ing now.

If the woman gets finan­cial pay­ments from her long term rela­tion­ship then lat­er once she has received what she wants from the man then she dumps him often with­out cer­e­mo­ny and then pro­ceeds to enter a full time rela­tion­ship with the oth­er man she has been secret­ly dat­ing.

This hap­pens all the time and most of the time things nev­er reach the lev­el of the courts except for when in some instances the abuse cre­at­ed by the woman ris­es to a crim­i­nal lev­el or civ­il lev­el.

In our fic­tion­al account the woman has can­cer and estab­lish­es a rela­tion­ship mak­ing promis­es about love life and a long term com­mit­ment.

After the woman receives med­ical treat­ment and is cured of the can­cer she then dumps the man that paid for the med­ical treat­ment depriv­ing him of her com­pa­ny and the promis­es she made to him depriv­ing him of love and promis­es that she promised were a part of their rela­tion­ship.

This would be called a breach of promise.

Most of the time as stat­ed pre­vi­ous­ly these instances do not cre­ate long term issues how­ev­er in this case the man that is now deprived of a rela­tion­ship is now in finan­cial dis­tress because he com­mit­ted all of his finan­cial resources to help his mate become well expect­ing that once the woman was suc­cess­ful­ly treat­ed that he would have a long term con­tin­u­ing rela­tion­ship with the woman.

What hap­pened was the oppo­site, once the treat­ment was com­plet­ed and paid for the woman began a long term rela­tion­ship with anoth­er man who did not have to pay for the med­ical treat­ment and had no stand­ing.

This might be a good case for Guy Court.

Just in case your won­der­ing here is one link to one of the ten cas­es we found.